Last Sunday's Homily
By Fr. Tom St. Pierre
Fr. St. Pierre is Co-Pastor, with Fr. Gerry Twomey, of St. Anne's
Parish, Brentwood, Long Island, NY.
In last Sunday's very touching Gospel story, a leper, with frayed clothing
and muffled face, kneels down before Jesus in the dirt and says, "If you
wish, you can make me clean." Then, it says, Jesus, "moved with pity…stretched
out his hand, touched him and said, 'I do will it. Be made clean…'" (Mark
1:41) Jesus is so touched by the suffering of the leper that he touches
him.
Our English translation says that Jesus was "moved with pity," but, in
the original Greek, the real wording was much stronger: Jesus' bowels
were stirred. Where we might say to somebody who's hurting, "My heart
goes out to you," a Jew of that time would say, "My bowels go out to you."
I know, it sounds kind of gross, but it shows us that real, strong feelings
come from deep down inside us. Love, Anger, Hate… these come from deep
inside. Sometimes, we'll even say, "Don't get your bowels in an uproar!"
Well, at least I say that; I like it more than, "Don't have a cow, Man!"
That strong language is used over and over again in the Gospels, over
and over again, Jesus' bowels are stirred by the suffering of the sick
who come to him, by the widow whose only son died in her arms, the father
of an epileptic boy, the leper kneeling before him.
And, when Jesus is touched by their suffering, he touches them. When
the bowels of his compassion are stirred, he reaches out his healing hand
to the dead little girl, Tabitha (Mark 5:41), to Peter's Mother-in-law
(Mark 1:31), to the epileptic boy (Mark 9:27). Many more times, too, Jesus
reaches out his healing, compassionate hand to touch those who are suffering.
This past week, I read the Suffolk D.A.'s 180-page report on Clerical
Sexual Abuse in the Church here on Long Island. 180 pages of horror! I
knew that Christ's bowels were stirred by the suffering of those poor,
little victims. I knew that he wanted to reach out his healing, compassionate
hand to touch them.
My bowels were stirred, too…stirred with anger, betrayal, sadness, pity,
disgust, and disbelief. I knew almost all of those abusers; I went to
school with some of them; some of them taught me. I admired them; I laughed
and joked around with some of them. And, then I read Newsday and
said, "They did that…to kids!!" I'm horrified! I didn't know!
But, those who did know, the Bishops and Monsignors who did know, hushed
it up, covered it up as fast as possible, and moved the abuser to another
parish (sometimes with therapy…sometimes without). He was moved to a place
with fresh victims. And, those who knew congratulated themselves on saving
the diocese money and bad publicity. They were proud of themselves; they
were giving each other high-fives in the Chancery halls.
The old Intervention Team was made up of three priests, two of whom were
lawyers but tried to hide the fact that they were lawyers. They'd rush
to speak to the victims and their families, discouraging them from calling
the police, from calling a lawyer. They'd set up the cheapest possible
therapy for the victims, and then play games with them…setting up meetings,
then canceling them. Not returning phone calls or letters. Lies and deception…stringing
the victims and their families along…until they would just fade away.
And, the abusers were moved around. When I left St. Anne's in 1988, I
followed one into St. Pius in Plainview…Priest G; he was sent to St. Martin's
in Amityville…another parish with a school. They were moved around until
the Boston Globe started breaking the story of priestly sex abuse
in January 2002…until all the publicity began…just around the time Bishop
Murphy came into our diocese. And, he acted; he started removing the abusive
priests.
I've been watching News12, listening to WLIE-AM talk radio,
reading Newsday this past week, and people are angry; people are
horrified; they're sad and disgusted, too.
What do we do? I don't know, but we've got to make sure this never happens
again! I needed to get some input, so I went to the Voice of the Faithful
meeting that Thursday in North Babylon High School. I was there with 800
other good, Catholic people who were just as angry and confused as I was.
(Father Gerry and Deacon Terry were there, along with Terry's wife, Pat.)
We began with the song: "Christ, be our Light!" The first speaker got
up and asked the question I was asking myself: "What are we going to do?"
She said we must "hold our bishops accountable" and "demand more openness."
Then, somebody shouted, "Pray the Rosary!" Praying the rosary is nice;
praying the rosary is important; but praying the rosary is not going to
stop one kid from being abused.
The Voice of the Faithful is a centrist organization: it's not liberal
or conservative. It tries to reach out to both. Its motto is: "Keep the
Faith. Change the Church." Its goals are to (1) support those who have
been abused, (2) support priests of integrity, (3) shape structural change
within the Church. That last one scares some people, but, unless you make
some real changes, how are you going to stop the abuse? VOTF wants a Church
that is more open, transparent, accountable, and participatory. And, from
my point of view, the only bright light in this whole sorry mess has been
the Voice of the Faithful. That's the only sign of hope I see. You're
invited to the next VOTF meeting on March 13th, when Father Gerry will
be the speaker.
Gerry and I, your Co-Pastors, try to be as open, transparent and accountable
as possible. In last week's bulletin, you found our accountant's revenue/expenditure
report for the previous month. After the Suffolk D.A.'s report came out,
Bishop Murphy responded, but you know the deck was stacked against him.
People have become so jaded, so skeptical, that few were going to believe
him, few were going to be satisfied…whatever he said. He did remove the
abusive priests; he did set up a new intervention team that is…better…but
not good enough.
Let me read you the comments of a good friend of mine, a mother whose
14-year-old son was approached by a priest, a dear family friend, in a
sexual way. She had been given the run-around by the old Intervention
Team; now she met with the new one:
"My husband and I, along with our son, met with the new Intervention
Team. I'm sorry to say it was not a good experience. The team consists
of Fr. Batule, Sr. Sean Foley (a social worker) and Police Commissioner
Donald Keane. Well, the day we met, Sister never showed up at the meeting
and Donald Keane was in and out of the room most of the time. So the meeting
took place with Fr. Batule, who I found to be unsympathetic. He at times
challenged my son about what he said happened and once again we experienced
the same situation, where I felt Fr. Batule was looking out for the abuser
and not my son. It was not the Intervention Team we met with that day,
just Fr. Batule. Changes need to be made. So far what is being done is
not working…."
Even though there is a new Intervention Team, they must be watched and
evaluated. D.A. Spota said in his report that, without the light of publicity,
of the Boston Globe, Newsday and so many others, reforms would
not have been made. We know that's true.
Are you angry? Good! You should be. Anger is not good or bad; it's neutral.
Anger is energy, and we're going to need that energy.
Hold us accountable. Hold Gerry and me accountable. Hold our Bishops
accountable. Hold the bureaucrats in the Chancery accountable, because
there's a whole bunch of people who work in that Chancery building in
Rockville Centre who are just waiting for this story to get off the front
page…so they can get back to business as usual.
In the name of all those who've been abused…
In the name of all the good priests who don't abuse…
In the name of all the kids and teens who'll want to be a part of the
Church in the future
and must be kept safe…stay angry! Keep your bowels in an uproar!
Make sure this never happens again!
Make sure wenever get back to business as usual!
Make sure this never happens again!
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